WHY MEN CRY!!: After Sending Her All of My Life Savings While Abroad, This girl is Telling Me She Thought I was Joking About Her

In what appears to be "You are the bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh" affair, a young ambitious man shared his rather depressing moments from the hospital bed he was laid on about his ex-girlfriend. 

Read the story below:

I met this 'scam' of a girlfriend when i was doing my national service at Accra 2019. Doreen is her name but i fondly called her Dolly. She's beautiful; can't deny that, my co-workers always openly say it. The conditions surrounding the way we met seems like even God wanted us to be together.

She works in the same unit where i did my national service. I was working on some files in the office the day we met and she appeared to be making inquiries about who Damian is when she walked up briskly to my desk, she called my name, i looked up and she lost it like i could recall we both got lost at each other for like a minute (60secs)  before the lady sitting beside me called her name out aloud !.............(It's a long story)

Well to cut the past long story short, we started talking, exchanged contacts and weeks later we were already deeply dating.....Later she came over to the apartment where i had rented; i could tell her reaction by the expression on her face that she does not like the place (It was a single room)

Our love relationship became so strong few months later which caught the attention of people. Almost everyone in the office had noticed. I remember somewhere in September, our much anticipated "Allawa" had been paid and to my dismay, Dolly handed her own share of the Allawa to me on our way back home and asked me to add some money to it so that i could move out of the one-room apartment where i stay. She explained that she's not comfortable with me sharing the same bathroom and water closet with the other tenants.

Like i was 'Wowed' that fateful day. Honestly, my joy that night led me to deleting all of my girlfriend's contacts in order to focus on my new found angel and better half. I made a strong vow never to cheat on her......

In wasn't long enough when i completed my service at Accra and God being so good, luck smiled broadly at me. YES !! the Canadian scholarship i applied for was successfully granted and i was preparing to move abroad for further studies....

I shortly parted ways with my lovely Dolly but we still dating; we were always on the phone and if that could not make up for the "I miss you'' stuff, text messaging and social media complimented our efforts to stay in touch. At some point, i thought i was abusing the 'Love' emoji on my smartphone. I could send like One hundred Love emojis just in the morning and it goes on and on.I started sending money to Doreen for our building project, the total summation  of the money i sent was around $350,000. (Three Hundred and Fifty thousand Dollars). It's approximately GH¢1,505,231.75. 

All through this period, Dolly periodically sends me pictures of the land and how the construction is smoothly on going........ I gracefully completed my program only for me to return to my wife who is now married to a different man with kids in my own house.

I angrily had her arrested and all she could say was "she thought i was just joking with her"

and that she was thinking that i must have found another girl in Canada during the studies. She was able to recover only GH¢60,000 out the the whooping GH¢1.5m

I took ill and was therefore rushed to the hospital where i was admitted for two weeks. While in the hospital, i thought i was going to die cos i could not feel my heart beat anymore. The trauma and shock i received had rendered me completely wrecked and i felt life walk out of me. It was as if i could literally see my soul depart from me. But i thank God Almighty that i later got another chance to return to Canada and start all over again. What Doreen did then is the reason i am still single today !

The truth is i now disrespect any black girl i met in Canada. I just cannot stop hating them because of Dolly's deceit.

The trauma still echoes in my mind and hunts me daily.......

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